Welcome Femme Vitale!

Most likely if you've landed here, you are a Seeker.

You've been walking the road back to your most authentic self for a long time, and you've faced some serious demons along the way.

You've done countless meditations. You've attended gong baths.

You've written scores of morning pages. Maybe you've even walked on hot coals.

Brava beauty.  Well done. Now let's go get a gelato.

Do you ever find that the more you look at your problems, the more problems pop up to be fixed? 

And that along with those problems comes a new book to read, a new course to take, a new therapist to seek out, and a new crystal you have to sleep with?

This is not to diminish the importance or necessity of deep self-inquiry. 

But what if ENJOYMENT was actually a path to enlightenment?

What if rather than constantly working on yourself, you slowed down to actually taste the fruits of your labor?

What if abundance was not measured by how much you can get, but how deeply you can savor  what you have?

And what if there was a way to cultivate the virtues of humility, honesty, integrity, and authenticity, in a way that feels like drinking champagne at a Paris bistro, reading your favorite novel, and attending a tea party all at once?

Entre: Club Macaron.


Club Macaron is a community for zesty babes with a ravenous hunger for all things charm and cheek; and who seek to live with sensuality, spirituality and style in all areas of life.

If you have ever....

  • Yearned for a community of fierce femmes who inspire you to speak your mind and seek fun ruthlessly
  • Had a hard time turning off your to-do list brain at the end of the day, despite making self care a near full-time job
  • Found that enjoying the taste of fine chocolate is your kind of meditation
  • Found yourself flummoxed by the question "So, what do you do for fun?"

Welcome to the Charm School you've been waiting for!


What to expect: Before & After Club Macaron

Hello, World!


Grocery Shopping

BEFORE Club Macaron: You rush through to cross  this chore off your list. You hurriedly throw items in your cart.  When you leave the store you can't remember what the cashier looked like, even though you just saw them 45 seconds ago.

AFTER: You just read Julia Childs' memoir and feel inspired you to make potato leek soup.  You drive a bit out of the way to a smaller market with local produce to nourish your body with the best food you can get.  You fondle and examine your produce selectively before placing it in the basket. You pause to take in the beauty of the flower display before hitting the checkout, tucking a small bouquet under your arm.  You make eye contact with the cashier and walk out holding your grocery bag like it is a box of secret treasures.


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BEFORE Club Macaron Finish the dishes and fall into bed.  Scroll through your phone out of boredom. Use this time to read that book on co-dependency you've been meaning to get to.

AFTER: Once everyone is in bed you sit on the edge of the tub and run warm water.  You open a jar of lavender/eucalyptus sugar scrub you made yourself.  The fragrant aromas and warmth of the steam invade your senses. You close your eyes and begin massaging your feet with the scrub, slowly buffing away any rough patches.  Your whole body releases as you let the warm water trickle between your toes and along the arch of your foot.  After patting your feet dry, you massage them with a little shea butter, and then put on a fresh pair of cozy socks.  You slip into bed after lighting two taper candles on the nightstand, and sweetly enjoy a delicious novel until you start to drift off.  You blow out the candles and sail into sleep with the slight aroma of candle wax on the air. 


Going on Vacation

BEFORE Club Macaron: You are desperate to relax but don't have much spare time to plan so you choose a place that is not your ideal but will at least get you out of town.  Once there, you feel too wound up to relax, so you eat and drink more than you like just to escape. By the time the vacation ends, you feel like you're just getting started.

AFTER: You choose a location that is a bit exotic that you've always wanted to see. You call the hotel in advance to make sure they give you the biggest bathtub your budget can afford. Every day you go on an adventure to stimulate your senses and connect with your body.  Since your nervous system is already well tended, every experience feels like a whoosh of pleasure to your system.  More than just taking a break or turning off, this trip is creating beautiful memories and turning you ON.

Meet The Founder, Kitty Cavalier


Hello! I'm Kitty.  Here I am with one of my great muses (and Club Macaron member), my Mama, savoring one of life's simple joys, bright red lipstick.  My passion and purpose in life is simple: allow spirit to speak through the senses, and help others to feel the same.

My journey has ranged from convent candidate to burlesque star.  I love all things glamorous, elegant and inviting.  I think the sexiest thing in the world is a person who speaks the truth and cares genuinely about other humans.  I enjoy exploring both the agony and the ecstasy of life; the deep, bitter espresso and the frothy cream on top. I have a deep devotion to beauty.  

I created Club Macaron because sensuality, spirituality and style are the three things I could talk about for the rest of time and never get bored, and because it is the kind of club I'd be extremely proud to be a member of.   I come to you as both teacher and companion on the journey.  I not only lead the group, I practice right alongside you. The tools, experiences and coaching of Club Macaron are designed to lead you to your own unlimited inner resource of courage, while the community cheers you on loudly and throws confetti on your path. 

It would be not only my pleasure but my honor to welcome you as a member.  Here's to the beginning of a fine romance!



1. The Club Macaron Book in Print and PDF:

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The Club Macaron Book

Available to  members only, this full-color, 180 page, gem of a book will be delivered to your doorstep within 2-5 days, and to your inbox immediately. A personal memoir, complete guidebook, intriguing journal and entertaining magazine, this book will teach you how to infuse style, sensuality and feminine spiritulaity into every area of life.  Click here to  peek at the introduction.    

2. The Monthly Charm School Curriculum:

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A Members-Only Podcast & Practice

From Kitty's lips to your ears, this members-only podcast will inspire you to live with whimsy, joy and charm through simple practices and themes.  Upcoming themes we will explore are: Simplifying Luxury • Beauty as Prayer • Confident Truth Telling • The Art of Savoring • Flirtation  Mastery • Style as a Spiritual Practice • & More!

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Club  Macaron Date Night

Pour the bubbles, you're going on a date! Every month we have a group date night, filled with stimulating conversation, pleasurable delights, and just enough to leave you wanting more! Through powerful coaching from Kitty and community support, our date night's leave you inspired to think bigger, be bold, and go confidently in the direction of your dreams.  

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A Pleasure Based Movement Ritual

Exercise may make you feel amazing afterwards, but what about during?  These 20-minute, pleasure based movement audios will have you DELIGHTING in the instrument of your body, slowing down to savor, meditating through movement,   and leave you feeling completely revitalized --  from pin curl to pinky toe.


Monthly Guest Star Salon

Don't waste another moment scouring the internet for the best teachers, innovators, artists, designers, and beauty experts. In Club Macaron, we bring them to you on a silver platter!  Every month you will meet a new guest star that will teach you new skills and turn on your creative genius.


3.  The Femme Vitale Resource Library:

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The Femme Vitale Resource Library

Go from Book Smart to Body Smart with the online book resources library. Each chapter of the book comes with a collection of downloadable audios, videos and playlists found in this extensive library.  These tools will enhance your study, while showing you a really great time! 


4. Live Lunchtime Meditations Every Week:

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"Pause Plaisir" - A Live, Macaron Meditation Every Week

Every Wednesday at 1pm ET, rest and relax at a our live Pause Plaisir or "Pleasure Break" gathering.  Relax and restore, breathe and receive.  After just 20 minutes you'll return to your day feeling focused, fresh and fabulous! 

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A portion of every Club Macaron Membership goes to support The Art Therapy Project, an organization dedicated to providing art therapy at no cost to under-served populations who have experienced trauma.

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"I’ve taken more self improvement courses than I can count, and Kitty is the number one teacher I recommend. She has revolutionized personal development through femininity. Every lesson is like a detox tea and a cocktail all in one, in just the right portion to make an profound impact. The lessons float through my head all week, guiding my choices and making me feel more in tune with my power.


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“I no longer need to shrink down if my authenticity makes others uncomfortable. Instead I present myself to the world vibrantly, and let the world shape itself around me.”


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“I have done a lot of personal work but continued to struggle with how I saw my body and the ever elusive “self love.”  Kitty revealed sweetly and delicately the path to wholeness through sensuality.  These tools transform me every day.  I walk this earth with a reverence I didn’t know how to access before. It’s a feeling every woman deserves.”


What will I learn in Club Macaron?

  • How to Simplify Sensuality

Sensuality can be a complicated subject, but at it's heart, sensuality could not be more simple.  Sensuality is nothing more and nothing less than engaging with life through your senses. In Club Macaron you will learn how to turn the simplest pleasures into moments of astounding luxury, how to trust your body deeply, and how to make simple shifts that will make even the most ordianry moments feel voluptuous. 

  • Beauty as Prayer

In Club Macaron you will be supported in making beauty a priority in your life. Most of us don't prioritize beauty because we don't have the time. But investing time in how you dress, eat, decorate and adorn is a practice with rich rewards.  When we prioritize beauty, time stretches.   The present moment becomes more vibrant, lively and precious.   In Club Macaron, you will learn how to refine and revel in this uniquely feminine, decadent spiritual practice.

  • Tending to Your Resplendent Feminine Nervous System

We all know the power of positive thinking, but using the mind to change your thoughts is kind of like using the same consciousness that created a problem to solve it.  In Club Macaron, we let your BODY do the talking by finding your nervous system's Sweet Spot. When you are in the sweet spot, it doesn’t matter if you are strolling along the Seine River or pumping gas at a rest stop, your body feels ALIVE and ENGAGED with life, and your mood and emotions follow suit.

  • Confident Truth Telling - Vérité

Imagine how much more energy you would have if you never had to fake it. Imagine how much more time you would have if you never felt the need to people-please. Imagine how much more fulfilling your relationships would be if you never had to wear a mask. Verite is the French word for truth, but more than that, Verite is a state of being.  It is the glow that comes from allowing the truth that lives inside of you to exist and be seen outside if you.  In Club Macaron you will learn how to listen for the still, small voice of your Verite, and through powerful assertiveness training, learn to speak it with ease, grace and guts.

  • How to Cultivate Signature Style

More than how we dress, style is how we express.  How we walk, how we talk, how we work, how we flirt -  style is reflected in all of it! Club Macaron brings you some of the world's BEST stylists, artists, perfumers, decorators and designers to learn how to bring style into every nook and cranny of your life.


Can I buy the book without becoming a member?

The book is only available to members.  This is because the book was written to be a companion to the program.  Similar to a choose your own adventure novel, the book invites you to go beyond just reading the ideas, into actually implementing and living them through the Club Macaron curriculum and community. 

Who can join Club Macaron?

Any female identified person is welcome in Club Macaron.

Can I sign up at anytime?

No, enrollment is only open through May 31st.

When will I get my book in the mail?

If you live in the U.S. your book will ship within 24 hours of purchase and you will receive it within 3-5 business days.  If you live outside the U.S., just sign up for the regular membership and we will send you an invoice for the additional shipping cost, as well as an estimate of when your book will arrive. 

How does billing work?

Club Macaron is a monthly membership, so every 30 days you will be automatically charged $47.  You can cancel at anytime. 

How do I cancel my membership?

Once logged into the membership site, simply click on your account and choose cancel.  No contracts, easy peasy.

Is there a Facebook Group?

Yes. The Facebook group is a wonderful way to connect with other women in the program and share your insights - HOWEVAH.   The whole point of Club Macaron is live in the moment and savor life through the senses, so if you choose not to participate via Facebook or only participate occasionaly, that is no problem whatsoever.

I have more questions, who should I ask?

Contact us at support@kittycavalier.com and we will get back to you in 24 hours or less!

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“I can be quite the skeptic but Kitty always blows me away with her responses and suggestions. She uses her playful, loving, spirit to see beneath the surface of a question and help you discover the real root inside. This work has provocatively and playfully helped me make space in my life for what truly matters."


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This work has taught me how to feel good in my own skin.  I have put down the heavy bag of self-loathing and I now walk with the unshakeable swagger that I am the bee’s knees!


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“I am filled with more seduction, romance, playfulness and fun than I could have ever imagined for myself. I am forever changed by this experience.”



Join us Femme Vitale!

Join us, mes amis!

Enroll today and you will receive:

  • The Club Macaron book in print and PDF (free shipping within the U.S.)
  • Instant access to The Femme Vitale Resource Library
  • Weekly, live "Pause Plaisir" meditation calls
  • The Charm School monthly curriculum with a members only podcast, pleasure based movement ritual, date night and guest star salon (beginning in June)
  • Access to Lounge Macaron, our online community
  • A special, inaugural kick off call with Kitty on Friday June 1st


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“People started to tell me I looked different yet it wasn't external. It was my natural magnetism and confidence. Kitty helped me clear the rubble so that I can shine. If you're considering working with Kitty, the answer is Hell Yeah!!!”


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"I am a different woman that the one I was before  I live a happier, more peaceful life today; one where I write my own script.  I’m not waiting on someone else to give me self-worth or dictate the direction of my life. This work opened my eyes and showed me how to be my own source of power."


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"If you are ready for the awakening of your soul thre is a place waiting for you by the glow of candlelight in Club Macaron .When my world turned upside down and my husband almost died, it was the truth telling practices I learned here that helped me to speak the truth I needed to in order to fight for his survival.  These are lessons that will last a lifetime. "



See you inside gorgeous!